AND THAT’S ACTUALLY GREAT!
We get to learn something new from someone who know’s better than us and that’s an advantage if we listen to someone who is older to us and to our parents.
I know you have best friends too that won’t let you get harmed but sometimes the care of a parent is still different and their advise as well, but sometimes are best friends will just tell you..
“Go for her bro!”
“Dude you’re gonna let her go?”
“Iiwanan mo yung babaeng yan? Eh ang hirap makahanap niyan”
These are the lines and opinions that our best friends would give, well if your partner didn’t cheat on you or vice versa…
OUR PARENT’S LOVE US
Now this is something I don’t talk about every time, but it’s the truth, okay let’s say you love someone that’s not really pretty for them but has a kind heart and good attentions towards you, will they allow you to be with that person?
OF COURSE THEY WILL!
A good personality and heart is far more greater than boobs and beauty.
Why would they allow you with that simple nerd rather than that pretty girl back in high school?
Probably our parent’s saw something from her that will not put us to harm or what.
That, that girl can truly love us no matter what.
‘Hindi puro kilig lang at holding hands in public and gusto lang ng syota for now and to feel love’
You can feel love from many things.
And many more..
Because if you can’t love yourself and your parents how can you love someone else?
This is something that you must realize first before entering in a relationship, and many more.
LET ME ASK YOU SOMETHING
Why are you reading this until now?
Off topic right? Okay here’s another one.
Do you love your partner?
Why do you love your partner?
And why ‘N O W’?
WHY DID I ASK YOU THIS?
To make you realize something.
Are you reading this because you can relate? Or you just wanna see what my life will be in the future?
Do you really love your partner for who he is or you love him for what he has and can give you?
Why do you love your partner, is it your choice or your friends force you to or you just felt sad for that person and gave that person a chance?
Why now? I don’t know how old are you but I’m going to put it according to age.
13 to 17 – Why now? Is it the right time, right place, right season and right person? Why not after school why now? Why not when you’re earning money on your own why now when your still studying and young to find out who you really are? Or you’re just jealous because you’re friends are in a relationship already and your not?
18 to 23 – Why now? Is it your season? Are you ready to get in again from your last break up? Are you ready to have your first love? Or are you just desperate to have on because you’re getting old and lonely here on earth? Do you have enough money already to get married?
NOW THIS IS WHY I ASKED YOU THIS
To make you think about your life right now.
These are my questions everyday when I wake up.
And I did ask my self about Yanna.
I KEPT ON SAYING YES TO EVERY QUESTION I ASK MY SELF
Which I know it’s wrong and in the long run it will really hurt me and her a lot, no actually destroy is the word for it.
AND I CAN’T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT NOW
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